Dreambuilding with Friends

Last night we had some amazing friends over who are building this amazing business with us and we asked them to share what their dreams and goals were and why really they are building this business.  It was pretty inspiring and you really don’t fully understand your friends or people for that matter until they open their heart and share the dreams and goals they have for life and where they want to end up. 

We also had the chance to share with them because they had asked us and when I watch my amazing wife share what she wants in life it’s pretty amazing.  She really opens up her heart and ends up getting teary because she wants it so bad.  That’s what it takes, you really need to want something bad enough that it hurts in order for it to come to fruition.

It really got me thinking again about our goals and what we want in life and I figured I’d put those things down again.  I always love writing them out because it really gets me thinking and honestly just shows you the kinds of things that will be available in what we are doing.  We know this because we’ve seen it first hand in our coaches and also their coaches and beyond.

This year we will have Lindsay retire from her job and never have to work for another man again.  She will no longer have to work for someone that tells her when she has to be in to start her day, no longer tells her when she can have lunch and really no longer has control over her paycheque.  Of course she will still work but it will be working on our future through our business. So maybe it’s semi-retired.  :)   Either way she will now be home to raise our kids when we have them and won’t need to drop them off at a dayhome or daycare.  WE will be raising our kids and instilling our values into them, not someone else.  That is goal number one for us right now and why we are spending a lot of time building our business. 

We also want to become debt free as some of my previous posts have shown and we will achieve that this year.  We are making some tough choices and really streamlining our life so that we can get the most out of it for the short term.  There will be some sacrifices however having a shot term mentality doesn’t work for us because we have HUGE long term goals and the old adage small term pain for long term gain really applies.  I know some people reading this know that for sure.

Moving on with our life we want to move out to Kelowna where we may end up renting for another year or two while we have our house built and paid for in cash.  Renting isn’t necessarily a bad thing as we will end up saving far more then what equity would be build up in our house and with how much we’d be paying down in our mortgage.  We will end up raising our kids out in Kelowna and either put them in private school or have them home schooled with a personal teacher.  Our kids will get first hand teaching instead of being in a school full of 30-40 kids where it takes 10 times longer to teach kids because the class can only go as fast as the slowest kid.  By this time I will have also walked away from my job and will be at home raising my kids as well.  Being able to take them out in the afternoon and go hiking or skiing for their physical education instead of a 60 minute class at school.  How cool is that?

Lastly family is key for us and we want to be able to spend a lot of time with our family so as we continue to grown our business we will help to retire our parents before they need to.  When you really look at what it would take to retire them you start to get a sense of, we can do that.  They don’t need to work or be on the “Work till you die program”.  We want our parents to enjoy as much time with our kids and our family as possible.  No longer will their be handcuffed to their jobs so they cannot see their grandchildren grow up. 

These are just some short term goals that we have in the next little while and as we continue to grow this business where the work we did a year ago is still paying us today, we will continue to help other people do the same as us and help them realize they too can achieve dreams and goals like this or whatever their dreams and goals are.  We fully believe this is possible and we will make it happen.

Obviously we have much more dreams and goals then this, but this is just the start for The Guthrie’s and we could not be more excited to be doing what we are doing.  We have been blessed for sure!

Dreambuilding

Over the weekend I put up a bunch of pictures of materialistic things I want and also put up some pictures of the area we want to live in.  Why do I do this?  Well for one it’s to help dreambuild.  If you’ve ever been around people who are successful you’ll notice they put up words of affirmation, pictures of things they want, or goals they want to achieve.  It’s basically dreambuilding 101.  You’ll find though the majority of people out there won’t do this and it’s a shame.  You need to visually see what your goals and dreams are in order to obtain them.  It’s a driving factor or a motivational tool that really does work.

My Brand New 2003 Ford Ranger FX4 Level II

Before joining this business I used to do that.  In fact my mother taught me that.  I really wanted a 2003 Ford Ranger FX4 Level II.  It was the fully loaded version of the Ford Ranger.  It was around $36,000 CDN and I originally thought i’ll never be able to get that vehicle.  I had so much student loan debt and other debt that there was no possible way.  My mom basically said put up a picture of your goal so that you see it every day and have something to work towards.  So I did exactly that.  It was one of the few times I actually stopped being an ass and listened to my mother and it paid off.  I stuck to my debt reduction plan and paid off my debts and loans and was able to build up enough credit to buy the vehicle myself without my mother co-signing.  I didn’t pay for it all in cash, I would have liked to (our next vehicle will be in cash) however I was able to put it on a 0% financing so all my payments went directly to the principal.  It sure felt good to actually accomplish something like that all from a picture.

So that’s why we have pictures and words of affirmation around our house.  When you come into our condo you’ll see words like “Overcome”, “do the opposite of the masses”, “The best is yet to come”, “Play Injured”, “Are you living a dream, or just living your life”, “Break through the wall of fear”, “The Guthrie’s are all in” and more.  We believe these things motivate us and give us a dream.  Then you’ll see stuff on our fridge like pictures of Kelowna where we want to live, Wineries, because we love wine, in my office you’ll see a picture of a Breitling Chronomat B01 watch because that’s the watch I want, you’ll see magazines with inspirational things in them that relate to us.  It’s these things that keep our dreams alive.

It’s so important to do this whether you are building this business or not.  This what i’m writing about is part of the 95% of what we do with World Wide Dreambuilders.  The 5%, the Amway Global portion is the vehicle for the 95%.  You need a dream, goals and passion so that you have something to work towards.

We’ve got BIG dreams, and so should you!

Mission Hill Winery in Kelowna

Mission Hill Winery in Kelowna